Esther Perel on Why A.I. Intimacy Feels Safe but Isn’t Real
Esther Perel on Why A.I. Intimacy Feels Safe but Isn’t Real
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Esther Perel on Why A.I. Intimacy Feels Safe but Isn’t Real
Perel, a renowned psychotherapist, doesn’t really think society can — or should — fall in love with a machine.
To love is to be human. Or is it? As human-chatbot relationships become more common, the Times Opinion culture editor Nadja Spiegelman talks to the psychotherapist Esther Perel about what really defines human connection, and what we’re seeking when we look to satisfy our emotional needs on our phones.
Esther Perel on Why A.I. Intimacy Feels Safe but Isn’t Real
Perel, a renowned psychotherapist, doesn’t really think society can — or should — fall in love with a machine.
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Nadja Spiegelman:
People are using A.I. for so many things, from asking it to respond to their emails, to telling it their most intimate secrets. I’ve been thinking about what the increasing prevalence of A.I. means for human relationships.
In a study by Vantage Point Counseling Services, nearly a third of Americans have had some form of a relationship with A.I.
Esther Perel has been a psychotherapist for nearly four decades. She has seen human connection adapt and survive through the onslaught of all kinds of technological advances — from the onset of the internet to dating apps and now to this.
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